When we signed Aurora up for school I was quite glad that she had a
school uniform - as is the case with most schools here. Jakob's parents
were quick to remind me that uniforms were not all fun and games. There
is a downside to repressing social expression through clothing and
obliterating diversity. And while the argument against school uniforms
is a valid one I still just like them and am happy to report that Aurora
so far does not seem to be suffering from this particular infringement
on her individualism. And it is so simple in the mornings to not have to
choose what to wear. The children all look so studious and lovely. They
all look like they are on the same team and could burst out in song of
times tables at any minute. Some schools are especially oppressive
(generally the Catholic ones) and impose even stricter uniform
guidelines - all girls have to have their hair in the same colored
ribbons, all accessories must be issued from school shops to ensure
uniformity, all shoelaces must be the same length). Aurora's school is
much more lenient and children are often wearing their own sweaters of
runners and it's sad to say but I wish they wouldn't because it's not as
cute. I went to the school dance and I saw all the same children in the
clothes they chose to put on and they were all full of movie characters
and frills and random articles that appeared piled on top of each other
and it didn't look nearly as cheery.
This week though we
had to deal with one of the disadvantages of uniforms as Aurora lost her
sweater somewhere at school. First, there was the issue of her not
having a sweater in the appropriate colors and having to wear contraband
to school. Then there was the issue of finding the sweater. Yes there
is a lost and found, but, the thing is that it is just a large pile of red
sweaters. And then there are all the red sweaters hidden in various
spots around the yard. And all the red sweaters on hooks along all the
hallways. All of this was overwhelming to Aurora who came home empty
handed two days in a row. Finally, I decided the situation was complex
enough that I had to step in. Actually, I was also pretty excited to
play the real life version of Where's Waldo. So we walked around the
yard picking up sweaters and we took a family trip to the lost and
found. Aurora glanced and the mountain of red sweaters and said "none of
those are mine" with such confidence that I couldn't help but laugh and
ask "Uhm how do you know?" To which she replied "they don't look fluffy
enough". Bear in mind that all the sweaters are identical. She reached
into the pile and grabbed a sweater and said "See mine was way fluffier
than this." And then I made her look at the tag and of course that first
sweater she pulled out of the pile which could not possibly be hers had
her name written on it. Thank goodness I actually paid attention to the
parent instruction and wrote her name in the sweater! And so the
anti-uniform contingency scores another unexpected point.
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This is what happens when children decide what to wear - under the monkey suit are pyjamas |
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Look how nicely the children all match the play structure and school! |
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Jakob sent me this from his work trip to Darwin- doesn't seem like sweaters figured much into his week |
Why not suggest to the school that the uniform be changed to what Tova is wearing? That would be quite a sight.
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